This is my favorite excerpt from the House Mistress section. The references to Alpha and Omega roles are interesting and although out dated I think there’s a lot to be learned from the responsibility for family and duty here.
“54. SUCH ARE THE ONEROUS DUTIES which enter into the position of the mistress of a house, and such are, happily, with a slight but continued attention, of by no means difficult performance. She ought always to remember that she is the first and the last, the Alpha and the Omega in the government of her establishment; and that it is by her conduct that its whole internal policy is regulated. She is, therefore, a person of far more importance in a community than she usually thinks she is. On her pattern her daughters model themselves; by her counsels they are directed; through her virtues all are honoured;
—”her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband, also, and he praiseth her.”
Therefore, let each mistress always remember her responsible position, never approving a mean action, nor speaking an unrefined word. Let her conduct be such that her inferiors may respect her, and such as an honourable and right-minded man may look for in his wife and the mother of his children. Let her think of the many compliments and the sincere homage that have been paid to her sex by the greatest philosophers and writers, both in ancient and modern times.”
I’d also highly recommend reading a copy of ‘Mrs. Beeton’s Book of Household Management’: